Shelley and Chad aren't going to ask anyone else to do what they aren't willing to do themselves. In this episode, Chad puts Shelley on the hot seat. He grills her on what it means to be a 2 with a subtype of self-preservation. She defaults to pride when it comes to her relationships, and a growth path for her revolves around humility. Just how vulnerable will Shelley allow herself to be? As a 2, she is good at listening to others and letting them open up, but part of the unconscious strategy is to avoid having to reveal much about herself. Can Chad crack the Shelley code and get her to cry at least once? Tune in to find out all this and more on this second week of Enneagram hot seats featuring Big Self Co-Founders, Chad and Shelley Prevost.
Next week, we dive into our panels discussing their types, what makes them ticks, what are their motivations, how do they function in work settings, where are their weaknesses and virtues.
2:50--What does Shelley think about the rising popularity of the Enneagram?
15:01--The passion of pride, and how 2s have to work on this
21:20--How Shelley defaults in acute stress
29:01--How Shelley works with her arrows point at her 4 and 8
35:00--How Shelley sometimes has to name her emotions
36:35--How Shelley began to get traction with the Enneagram as a tool for growth when she gave herself to the system of the Enneagram